FAQ
I never had a massage, I feel nervous. Am I ready to book an appointment?
It is quite natural for the first-time receiver to experience nervousness prior to the session, Know that this nervousness will pass once you enter our sacred space. The moment before you knock on the door, pause, close your eyes, and take three cleansing breath, then knock. We will receive you with a smile and will put your mind at ease. We provide a safe, loving and held space, where you can begin to explore yourself, your feelings and emotions.
Can I shower there?
Yes, you must shower before the session starts and you can shower at the end if you wish.
You will be provided with freshly washed towels, sheets, sarong and slippers. Toiletries and mouthwash are also available. You may want to brush your teeth before you arrive as you will be working on face to face breathing exercises in Tantra sessions and your Therapist will appreciate your fresh breath.
What is Lyngham and Yoni?
In Tantra teachings each woman is considered a Goddess because each Yoni is the custodian of the infinite mystery of existence. Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the entire female genital system. It’s softer than the English word, vagina, and far more poetic than the crude terms used in modern day society. The Yoni is a sacred place, and in Tantra the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect. Yoni massage is used to assist women in breaking through sexual blocks and/or trauma.
Lyngham means ‘pillar of light’, and is the Sanskrit word for the phallus and the exalted male principle. It offers dignity and respect to the penis, and is far removed from the somewhat crude expressions used in modern day language. The Lyngham is pure life-force energy, the supreme potential creative power.
The energy around the sexual organs and pelvic region is the result of a slow build up of energy through bodily functions. This energy sits in the pelvis where it supplies the life force to the reproductive organs and glands. In Yoga or Tantra this energy is called Kundaline, and is represented in its dormant state as a coiled snake. Sex is the most potent way of awakening Kundaline energy, which uncoils from its dormant state and is released through ejaculation by the male, or rises in the spine in either the male or female, opening new levels of ecstasy, bliss, and consciousness.
Do you use oil for the massage?
We use a beautiful smooth mix of essential aromatic oils to heighten sensitivity. We can also use pure carrier oil if you do not wish to have aromatic oil. If you have any allergy or discomfort it’s possible to use talc or cream instead.
There is nothing you need to bring with you. We will provide everything that you will need.
Is there anything special I should bring or anything I should do before a session?
Can you teach me how to massage?
Yes. On ‘The Role Reverse’ we can teach you how to give your partner an amazing erotic experience. You will learn how to pleasure a woman with a yoni massage lesson or a man with a Lingham massage. Two hours sessions is needed. If you don’t have a model to work on we can arrange that for you.
If you are looking for a full connection or escort service our sessions are definitely not for you. Certainly there is physical contact between therapist and client, without such contact massage could not exist. However this contact is limited to those experiences defined within this website and should never be violated. Each session is different, as our tantricas will tune into the clients body and mind to find out what his (or her) needs are, which may often be quite different from the experience the clients thinks he "must have". We only work with those who are willing to open their minds to new experiences and can rise above self-limiting expectations of the past.
Please be aware and respect that our Services are not a ‘full personal’. No oral sex or penetration will be offered. Please do not offend our Tantricas by asking.
How can I be sure about my privacy?
We will protect your privacy. You can be assured that you are the "only" visitor in our my premises during your scheduled appointment. To help us to ensure our clients privacy we respectfully ask all our clients to arrive close to their appointment, no more than 15 minutes either side of the start time. All sessions are confidential. Your details are protected and won’t be passed to third parties. We won’t ring you if you would prefer it. Please check emails frequently in case we need to re arrange an appointment.
What or who is Namaste?
Namaste is a greeting or salutation. A common use of Namaste means where it may simply mean 'I bow to you’. The word is derived from Sanskrit words namah and te, meaning 'I bow (reverentially) to you. Also common is a polite form using the imperative astu meaning 'let there be': namo: stu te literally meaning ' let there be a a salutation to you 'All that is best and high. The light within me honours the light within you'. I honour the place in you in which the entire Universe dwells, I honour the place in you which is of Love, of Integrity, of Wisdom and of Peace. When you are in that place in you, and I am in that place in me, we are One.